Thursday, October 6, 2011

Finally. Rooting Ourselves in Memphis

Med School, residency, facing an inevitable year away for fellowship...  each of these things kept me from truly "rooting" myself into Memphis life.  Really for our first ten years of marriage, i lived transiently which seems ridiculous as i type given the 10 year time frame.  nevertheless, this is how i felt failing to fully engage in Memphis & many of the relationships formed here.  Fortunately, I have beautiful friends who ignored my relational misgivings, and it has been wonderful returning to them with more now to give.  
Enough there..

With the "rooting" I am appreciating life in Memphis more and more.  Certain Memphis loves - I "get" where previously I just didn't.  restaurant iris is in fact worthy of praise, the greenline is in deed glorious, the playground at shelby farms - amazing, mid-town - a refreshing and awesome world, driving a car (not a bob revolution) - simple and so so nice (though i do miss walking in Boston).

Just as I did with Boston, I want to emphasize the things in the city i enjoy doing while raising my two loves.  Decidedly, I will keep the blog title, for the 'blog' originated in Boston, but from this point forward i'll attempt depicting life as we finally "root" ourselves in Memphis.  

 The Memphis Zoo

First... It's been great to return to a fabulous zoo.  i've been to great zoos, and i think memphis has this one in the bag.

we have a great zoo!





Sunday, August 21, 2011

From Boston to Memphis

From Boston...
We moved to Boston last June, and I adopted the city as my own.  A little silly - yes - seeing we were there merely a year, but what a fantastic year (and why dismiss something i loved?)!  I do miss it, sometimes very much, but i have a choice here...
either i can
(a) sulk 
          or,  
(b) embrace a wonderful year, accept the blessing this adventure afforded at the end of a somewhat grueling 10 year medical training experience, and acknowledge the very real fact that i have absolutely NO idea what the future brings.  Who knows?  the northeast may still offer some type of permanence in the scrughams' lives.

To Memphis...  

edward and the watermelon
at the 4th of july neighborhood party
mom was there, waiting at the airport with a dozen roses in one arm for me & toys in the other for the kids.  the roses were a gift from dad, who with flight delays on our end & meetings on his, could not be at our welcome to memphis airport party.  no worries -  for he was certainly present at the impromptu 'meet and greet' that materialized in our front yard several hours later.  family, friends, a new home, el po for dinner - things were looking up!
the ease of it all...  bebe walking down the road to join us; uncle edward and bobo swinging by after work; laura, the beasleys, judy douglass (both new neighbors & old friends) spotting us in the yard & stopping in to say hi.  all of it - the ease & availability of those we love!

photo - not great.  but, what perfect timing.
new cousin john was born soon after our return home
he is an angel, beautiful in every way,
and it has been a lot of fun watching relationships between cousins
take off since moving home

about a week after the move some very dear boston friends (and jonesboro natives) happened to be traveling in the southeast.  the elation on langston's face when mary scott and frances appeared at our front door!  it was wonderful to see the dunns, but this did prove tricky in the weeks following - for langston thought it made perfect sense for boston friends to fly in at any time and say hello.

sweet girls
langston and mary scott


and frances
what a beauty!
and, school begins!
the first week of school has been a success!  i was nervous as langston lamented over missing her good shepherd teachers when walking in her new building.  BUT, all is well & we are loving our new school one week in.


so, we are back!  we are reconnecting with friends & realizing just how special friendships / relationships are

we come, we go, and friends remain - they may now even be a little stronger.  it's great being back with those we love.  

after a year in boston life is just a little more full.  i look forward to watching relationships grow with the special friends we made last year.  summers and visits to boston will be a blast, and i count us all so fortunate to have such special friends in a favorite place.  






now, what to do w/ the blog title???

Tuesday, August 2, 2011